tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2241161737267752730.post8774936695173133303..comments2024-01-23T04:33:27.548-06:00Comments on along for the ride: Clutter (part 2)Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01641582219521181142noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2241161737267752730.post-43879486397599532692014-10-03T21:34:35.141-05:002014-10-03T21:34:35.141-05:00Oh it's such a balance, isn't it?! I remem...Oh it's such a balance, isn't it?! I remember feeling exasperated at the gazzillions of legos and trains and cars and pillow forts and cleaning them up everyday. I felt like I needed to have a "company ready" space and, at that time, I felt that meant all toys away and no dishes in the sink. Then, a wise mama mentor said the words I have never, ever forgotten: " one day the pillow forts won't be there and you will miss them. These seasons are so very short". I was completely and utterly stopped in my tracks that day. It was meant as an encouraging word, and it so was. But it also gave me some perspective. I knew those pillow fort days would be short lived. I changed my idea of what a "company ready" space looked like for us in our season of little littles. I decided I could still have a clean house, but that we did indeed live here. I could have a dusted house, clean dishes and a swept up floor, but the toys could stay (within reason). Cleaning up at the end of the day was still needed for the most part, but sometimes those little trains and cars that found themselves tucked into book shelves and corners were allowed to stay. They served as reminders that the seasons were short and that it was OK to look like a young child lived in our house, because he did! ;) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com